Feeding Your School Age Child
Regular meals and snacks are important for your child. Learn how to help your child make healthy choices.
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Healthy eating habits take time to learn. As your child becomes more independent, use these tips to help them build healthy meal and snack routines.
Create an Eating Schedule
- Offer 3 meals each day at set times. Meals should last about 20 to 30 minutes.
- Help your child make healthy snack choices. Offer snacks at set times and encourage eating snacks at the table.
- Have your child eat only at meal and snack times. If they are hungry between meals or snacks, offer water until the next eating time.
- Make family meals a time to connect and enjoy being together.
Be a Positive Role Model
- Eat regular meals and include a variety of healthy foods.
- Let your child see you try and enjoy different foods.
- Keep mealtimes and snack times pleasant, relaxed, and stress-free.
- Offer praise, attention, or other non-food rewards to encourage positive behaviors. Do not use food as a bribe, reward, or punishment.
Involve Your Child
- Include your child in grocery shopping and cooking. Let them help choose fruits and vegetables at the store.
Make Food Fun
- Get creative with meals and snacks. Use cookie cutters to make fun shapes.
- Serve breakfast foods at dinner or try new ways to present familiar foods.
- Add colorful and bright fruits and vegetables to foods, such as:
- Broccoli, carrots, or spinach, to sauces, casseroles, and soups.
- Berries in yogurt.
Try New Foods
- Offer your child a small portion of the foods the family is eating. Ask them to try 1 bite, but do not force them. Let them ask for more if they are still hungry.
- Be patient when introducing new foods. Children may need to be offered a new food up to 12 times or more before they accept it.
- Avoid preparing separate meals for your child.
Recommended Daily Amount from Each Food Group
Daily intake from each food group varies based on each child’s age.

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This content was created to help you care for your child and/or family member. It does not take the place of medical care. Talk with your healthcare provider for diagnosis, treatment and follow-up.